Tipping has gotten more complicated. Here's how to navigate it.
A decade ago, tipping was mostly a restaurant thing. You left 15-20% on the table and that was that. Now every payment terminal from the coffee shop to the dry cleaner rotates a screen toward you with tip options, and the social anxiety of choosing "No Tip" with the cashier watching is real.
This guide cuts through the confusion. We will cover the actual expected amounts for every common tipping scenario, explain why the numbers have shifted, and tell you where it is genuinely okay to skip the tip without guilt.
Restaurant tipping: the standards have moved
The 15% tip isn't dead, but it has been downgraded. What used to be "good service" territory is now "I was slightly disappointed." The effective standard at sit-down restaurants has shifted to 18-20%, driven partly by rising costs and partly by the reality that server base wages have barely changed in 30 years.
According to the US Department of Labor, the federal tipped minimum wage remains $2.13 per hour, where it's been since 1991. While some states have raised their tipped minimum (California pays full state minimum regardless of tips), in most states, tips are the majority of a server's income. That's not a defense of the system; it's just the reality you're operating in when you decide how much to leave.
A practical breakdown:
- 20-25%: Excellent or attentive service, complex orders, large groups, special requests handled well
- 18-20%: Standard good service — the default starting point
- 15%: Service was noticeably slow, inattentive, or problematic (but still functional)
- Below 15%: Reserved for genuinely bad experiences — and consider talking to a manager instead, since the server may have been affected by kitchen or staffing issues beyond their control
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Delivery and takeout: the rules look different
Food delivery (DoorDash, Uber Eats, in-house delivery)
Delivery tipping has its own dynamics. The driver uses their own car, pays for gas and insurance, and earns a base pay from the platform that often works out to $3-6 per delivery before tips. The tip is what makes the job viable.
Standard: 15-20% of the order total, with a minimum of $3-5 regardless of order size. A $12 lunch should still warrant at least a $3 tip even though the percentage calculation would suggest $2.40. Bump it up for long distances, bad weather, apartment buildings with complicated access, or heavy orders.
Takeout and counter service
Takeout doesn't involve table service, so tipping isn't expected in the same way. But someone still prepared and packaged your order, and many restaurant workers split tips between front-of-house and kitchen staff.
The honest answer: 10% is generous for standard takeout. Rounding up or dropping $1-2 is totally fine for simple orders. For large, complex, or catering-style takeout orders, 15% acknowledges the extra work. No tip on a single coffee or quick grab-and-go item is acceptable and nobody is judging you.
Beyond food: tipping guide by service type
Rideshare (Uber, Lyft)
Tipping rideshare drivers was optional when these services launched. Now it is expected. $2-3 for short rides, $5+ for airport runs or rides over 20 minutes. If the driver helped with luggage, took a preferred route, or navigated difficult conditions, tip at the higher end. The Bureau of Labor Statistics notes that ride-hail drivers' earnings after expenses are often at or below minimum wage.
Hair salons and barbers
15-20% of the total service cost. This applies to haircuts, color treatments, styling, and other services. If the salon owner is doing the work, tipping is traditionally optional but increasingly expected. For assistants who wash or blow-dry your hair, a separate $3-5 tip is appropriate.
Hotels
- Housekeeping: $3-5 per night, left daily with a note so each housekeeper gets their share (rooms rotate between staff)
- Bellhop: $2-3 per bag
- Concierge: $5-20 depending on what they arranged (restaurant reservation = $5; hard-to-get tickets = $15-20)
- Valet: $3-5 when your car is returned
Other common services
- Tattoo artists: 15-25% (longer sessions and custom work warrant higher tips)
- Movers: $20-40 per mover for a standard local move, more for long-distance or particularly difficult jobs
- Grocery delivery: 10-15%, minimum $5
- Furniture delivery: $10-20 per person, especially if assembly is involved
When it is okay to not tip
Not every transaction requires a tip, despite what the payment terminal suggests. These are the situations where no tip is standard:
- Retail purchases. Buying a shirt, a book, or electronics does not involve tipped labor. The screen prompt is an upsell.
- Fast food counter. McDonald's, Subway, and similar counter-service chains don't have a tipping culture, and employees typically can't accept tips.
- Self-checkout or kiosk orders. If you're ordering via a screen and picking up from a window with no human interaction, tipping isn't expected.
- Professional services. Doctors, lawyers, accountants, and similar professionals bill for their expertise. Tipping isn't appropriate in these contexts.
Pre-tax or post-tax: does it actually matter?
The "correct" method is to tip on the pre-tax subtotal. In practice, the difference is small enough that most people tip on the total and call it a day. On a $80 dinner with $7 in tax, tipping 20% pre-tax is $16 and tipping 20% post-tax is $17.40. That $1.40 difference is unlikely to affect your life or the server's.
If you are splitting the bill across a group, use our uneven split calculator to handle proportional tip allocation, or the share split tool for even division. Both calculate tip on the pre-tax amount to keep things clean.
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